James 1:19-21
We all know what it feels like when anger starts rising within us—we want to be right, have the last word, or prove our point. In the heat of the moment, it’s easy to become quick to speak and slow to listen. Stephen Covey says, “Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” It’s no wonder we live in a culture with so much division. If believers aim to live counter-culture like Jesus, we must lead the way in listening, understanding, and showing empathy despite our differences. The Chinese character “Ting” is translated as “to listen,” but it’s an overly simplified definition. Each part of the symbol represents a different facet of listening—the ears, eyes, heart, mind, and undivided attention. It’s a picture of active listening, attuned to the other person with the intent to understand. If we want to become quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry, as James instructs in this passage, “Ting” is a great place to start. If...